7/2/2011
7/2/2011
Are You a “GWC”?
•See if you agree with these premises:
•Families exist to fill the physical + psychological + and spiritual needs of their adults and kids  - i.e. to nurture.
•Adults’  knowledge and wholistic health determine how well they fill their family members’ needs, so families range from “low nurturance” to “high nurturance”
•When young kids experience significant abuse, neglect, and/or abandonment in low-nurturance homes, they develop up to six psychological “wounds”:
•Excessive shame, guilts, fears, and reality distortions (like denial),
•Difficulty trusting people appropriately, and possibly…
•An inability to feel. love, and bond with other people.
•Unless they get knowledgeable help to reduce their wounds, kids become  “Grown Wounded Children” (GWCs). They show behavioral symptoms of their wounds.
•Their wounds + unawareness promote significant problems like abuse, abandonment, self-neglect, divorce, abortion, obesity, addiction, crime, gangs, bigotry, cults, school dropouts, depression. suicide, homelessness, murder, corruption, and  illness.
•Unhealed GWCs tend to unconsciously choose other GWCs as mates and associates,  repeatedly, despite major stress – so GWC mates often divorce.
•GWC couples unconsciously co-create low-nurturance families and wound their kids.
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Break the [wounds + unawareness] cycle!
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