Our Time Together
92) We usually have
enough time alone together
93) The quality of our times alone
usually feels good enough
to me
94)
Your
about our alone-time is
usually high
enough for me
(other)
_______________________________________________________
(+ / o /
- )
Our Trust and Honesty
95) I consistently trust that
you mean what you say to me (+ /
o / - )
96) I steadily trust that
you don't withhold
important things from me (+ /
o / - )
97) You don't use what I share against me
(+ / o /
- )
98) I can rely on you to not tell others what I wish to
keep private between us (+ /
o / - )
99) I completely trust that you won't
cheat sexually on me (+ /
o / - )
(other)
________________________________________________________
(+ / o /
- )
Our Values:
We usually agree well enough on:
100)
Child _ guidance and _ discipline
(+ / o /
- )
101) Personal
health, medications, diet,
and exercise (+ /
o / - )
102) Home
choice, furnishing, decorating, and maintaining
(+ / o /
- )
103) Household
chores and responsibilities (+ /
o / - )
104) Leisure, play, holidays, and vacations
(+ / o /
- )
105) Money
_ provision, _ allocation, _ saving, _ investing,
_ managing, and _ estate planning (+ /
o / - )
106)
church, and worship
(+ / o /
- )
107) Focusing enough on the present, vs.
the past or the future (+ /
o / - )
108)
Balancing our time between working, playing,
resting, and being
alone (+ /
o / - )
109)
Drug use (including food and prescription
chemicals) by
you, me, and the kids
(+ /
o / - )
110) Planning enough for our lives vs. letting life happen
to us (+ /
o / - )
111) Our responsibilities to, and
limits with relatives
(+ /
o / - )
112) Asking for and accepting help from appropriate others
when we need it (+ /
o / - )
113) Risking new experiences, ideas, and relationships from
time to time, vs. staying safely with the old ones
(+ /
o / - )
(other)
__________________________________________________________
(+ / o /
- )
(other)
_________________________________________________________
(+ /
o / - )
Other Relationship Strengths and
Stressors
(other)
__________________________________________________________
(+ /
o / - )
(other)
__________________________________________________________
(+ /
o / - )
(other)
__________________________________________________________
(+ /
o / - )
Lessons 2 and 4 articles in this site proposes specific ideas on
improving most of these factors...
