11
Core (Step)family Problems
Premise - adults in typical
families and
stepfamilies try to resolve
problem symptoms, rather than
fill the
causing the symptoms. From
30 years'
research, one of
five hazards is typical
adult' unawareness of...
1)
the requisites for high-nurturance
relationships,
parenting, and
families;
2) common psychological
what
they
and how to
them
3) how to use
effective-communication
basics and
to
resolve these 11 prob- lems, and
membership, values, and
loyalty
conflicts, and
relationship
triangles
4)
healthy
grieving
basics, and how to
assess and
end incomplete grief
5) their
stepfamily
identity and
realities,
and what these usually
mean
6)
the need
for a steady
long-range
outlook, and an effective (step)family
mission statement
7) typical
minor kids' many
developmental and family-adjustment
needs
8)
how to
reduce overwhelm by
prioritizing, focusing,
and
solving concurrent problems
9)
how to overcome common
to evolving a
high-nurturance co-parenting
team
10)
how to pick
healthy
(unwounded) lay and
professional
supporters; and...
11) how to make three informed, well-timed
re/marriage and/or cohabiting
choices.
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